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69 – Harare (Hatfield), Harare, Zimbabwe

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Ni_J

69 – Harare (Hatfield), Harare, Zimbabwe

Widowed dad of 13 years feels its now time to move on with life

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In His Own Words

About Him

To have loved someone so much that you know the question that they are going to ask you before they know themselves and this can be frightening and to basically share the same DNA is awesome and as some say two bodies but one soul. That is how it was with my late wife but also with some of my other girlfriends before I met her (scary but that is how God made me).I have been widowed for thirteen years and feel that it is time to move on with my life. I have two sons 29yrs and 26yrs old , the youngest one is married with 3 children and lives in the second house on the same property but not with me, the eldest one lives with his fiance and they have a baby daughter and I see him every working day of the week.
I love gardening and enjoy growing exotic plants such as carnivorous plants,orchids, succulents and bonsai. I also enjoy cooking especial Asian food, I love Reading, fishing,and animals, (I have a Basset Hound, & a Daxie) and also keep and breed parakeets. I love the outdoors. I am considered to be a fun loving person who enjoys a good laugh and enjoys the company of family, friends and pets. I enjoy R&B, modern jazz and some of the new stuff and like Si-Fi ,comedy ,horror, and series (Grimm, Sleepy Hollow) romantic movies{my favorites are August Rush, City of Angels, Faith Like Potatoes,Meet Joe Black and Legend of the Fall. ) I enjoy music from George Micheal,Stevie Wonder,Pink Floyd,Billy Ocean, Enigma, The Allen Parsons Project,Lionel Richie,Anita Baker and others.
Family and good friends and animals are very special to me and I love them around me but am also not bored if I find myself alone as I always have lots to do to keep me busy. Carpentry is one of my hobby's and DIY projects,
,tiling etc.I have always seemed to get along with women better than men as I seem to be more in touch with my feminine side and have more in common with them than men.

About His Ideal Match

I hope to meet a lady that has the same interests that I have cooking,gardening and the outdoors and who will tolerate my two sons and grandchildren (not to love them but accept them) someone that enjoys life and has a lighthearted outlook. I hope that should I meet the right lady that a lasting friendship would result and that the relationship would grow over time. I pray that God will bring MISS Right into my life, someone that I can love unconditionally and that will grow to love me for who I am.

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Harare (Hatfield), Harare, Zimbabwe
Gender:
Male
Age:
69
Star Sign:
Taurus
Height:
173cm (5' 8.1")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Greying
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
None
Religion:
Christian / Other
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Occasional
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school
Occupation:
Food Services
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
40 - 60
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
153cm (5' 0.2") - 180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Slightly important
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul
Reading:
I love it
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi
Movie Frequency:
Never
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns
Interests:
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
Birdwatching; Bowls; Darts; Extreme sports; Field Hockey; Fishing; Gymnastics; Hang- / Paragliding; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Polo; Rock climbing; Skiing; Sky diving; Snowboarding; Surfing; White water rafting
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Other; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Long hair; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Beach house
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement Plans:
Doing volunteer work
Feelings about using DatingBuzz Zimbabwe:
Nervous; Hopeful; Excited
Honesty:
Very